so it happened. Madaelyn had her first real boo boo.
a busted lip.
how does an 8 month old baby get a busted lip?
{by sneezing in her stroller and face planting on the bar that goes across the front.}
Remember those 2 teeth I told you about? yup. those pearly whites.
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Well they happen to be sharp enough to cut her lower lip. ouch.
Thankfully it was nothing more than a fat lip. I know that it is only the beginning of many bumps and bruises to come as Madaelyn becomes more mobile. {it doesn’t help that the girl has no fear. seriously. she laughs hysterically when she “falls” into my arms off of the couch, or my knees, or anything higher up.} On the one hand I am so proud of her bravery that she is willing to explore and learn about her surroundings. She has her mind set to walk. I think by 10 months she will be toddling around independently. However, it is a little nerve wrecking to know that your child will hurt herself.
Madaelyn’s bravery is mostly shown in her walking around. She is certain to know exactly where I am in a room at anytime. I call it her momdar. {mom+radar=momdar}.
Something else that is incredible is that I think I actually felt pain for her when this event occurred. It was more than empathy, yet I was not actually bleeding. No one can truly explain how connected you feel to your child. It is quite an amazing attachment. As a nurse I am around people who can be in great amounts of pain and I fortunately am able {usually} to help dissipate that pain. I empathize with my patients, but never to this extent.
Another learning curve for the 1st year of motherhood; pregnancy {if you recall mine was not so smooth} was only the beginning of the emotional roller coaster you feel as a mother. Boo boo’s may even hurt you more than your child.
So, here’s to hoping I get a little tougher skin for when my baby girl has her next boo boo {please don’t be anything severe}. Because, I refuse to be that Mom who has no furniture so her child does not get hurt. She has to learn that hitting her face on a hard object is going to hurt, but please lets not have any more blood, and can we do it so it only hurts a little bit, you know, enough to learn the lesson but no any real damage?. lets all hope.